{"id":958,"date":"2009-02-17T14:00:37","date_gmt":"2009-02-17T19:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amberstults.com\/?p=958"},"modified":"2010-06-13T00:42:13","modified_gmt":"2010-06-13T04:42:13","slug":"being-lost-isnt-always-bad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.amberstults.com\/?p=958","title":{"rendered":"Being Lost Isn&#8217;t Always Bad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Once someone knows of my wonderful ability to get lost it can become a defining characteristic.<\/p>\n<p>During my college years I was a bridesmaid in\u00c2\u00a0a wedding held in a\u00c2\u00a0city\u00c2\u00a0slightly South East of Columbus.\u00c2\u00a0 It was a 30 mile drive\u00c2\u00a0and I attempted to\u00c2\u00a0go by\u00c2\u00a0myself to the rehearsal.\u00c2\u00a0 After all, I had made it to the bridal shower without help from anyone.\u00c2\u00a0 (But I could be mistaken &#8211; it&#8217;s entirely possible the bride picked me up to make sure I&#8217;d be there!)\u00c2\u00a0 In high school and college I didn&#8217;t own a car.\u00c2\u00a0 I only drove the family station wagon in the city.\u00c2\u00a0 On this\u00c2\u00a0particular trip the freeway signs confused me.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0Lost and anxious, I pulled over and used a pay phone to tell them I was late.\u00c2\u00a0 (This was before cell phones were everywhere and the best quality movie format you could find was a laser disc.)\u00c2\u00a0 The pay phone was located 55 miles North West of the rehearsal.\u00c2\u00a0 I had gone 23 miles in the opposite direction of where I needed to be!\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0In my absence I was nicknamed &#8220;Miss Plain City 1992&#8221; because that was where I called from.\u00c2\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I write &#8220;lost&#8221; too.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s difficult for me to use outlines or have a real sense of structure when I tackle a short story.\u00c2\u00a0 When lost while driving I get anxious.\u00c2\u00a0 I worry about how late I&#8217;ll be, how long it will take me to get righted, and\u00c2\u00a0how much fun\u00c2\u00a0I may be missing.\u00c2\u00a0 When writing while lost it is an entirely different experience.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0My words meander\u00c2\u00a0across the pages.\u00c2\u00a0 I&#8217;m confident I&#8217;ll get to where I need to go.\u00c2\u00a0 There is no time limit on when I have to get there.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s so much easier to enjoy the ride.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Once someone knows of my wonderful ability to get lost it can become a defining characteristic. 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